It's the end of an era. Or at least, the end of writing about an era. ;)
It's been coming for some time, the end of this blog. For starters, I'm in love with someone who is just precious to me, and writing explicitly about our kinky adventures just seems too personal and exploitive anymore. That leaves the day-to-day sorts of nonkinky business, but then there is the not small matter of recent changes in my life that make who I am and what I'm up to much, much more public. Writing about work or my friends or what I do each day within the context of a kinkster's blog is, frankly, becoming a bit scary to me. It wouldn't be hard to figure out who I am and the potential consequences of that are becoming more than I'm comfortable with. I have a history with bad things happening from things I say on public blogs.
The one thing I love about having this blog is that it provides a way to keep up and be kept up with, to have community with other kinksters in Seattle who I don't see more than once a month. And I will miss that.
I acknowledge and appreciate the readers of this blog and this community of kinksters for providing me the space and listening to have so many personal transformations. Two years ago in January I decidedly and emphatically took on being gentle and loving with myself and others where it regards romantic relationships. That decision turned my life inside out. I never would have imagined that it would lead to exploring the BDSM scene, and I never would have imagined that the kinky community would lead me to a relationship that truly works, to a man I love like I love Mr San Francisco. One of the things I've learned in the last two years is that the path to what I want in life rarely looks the way I expect it should. And life wouldn't be any adventure if it did.
So, I'll be seeing you around, where all you lovely kinksters are around to be seen.
xoxo
Scarlett
